What to Wear to a Black Tie Event: The Ultimate Formal Dress Code Guide
So, you've been invited to an event with a black tie dress code. Formal attire can be intimidating, especially if your usual night out attire is a t-shirt and jeans. Our first piece of advice: don’t stress! Fashion is meant to be fun!
Black tie attire isn’t as complicated as it may seem, and it can be the perfect opportunity to add a special piece to your wardrobe.
Whether it's a wedding, a charity gala, or a formal dinner, our stylists’ guide will help you navigate the rules of dressing for black tie events.
What Is Black Tie?
Before we jump in, let’s get on the same page. Black tie is one of the most formal dress codes, second only to white tie (Should we make a guide on white tie too? Let us know!).
While black tie is traditionally reserved for evening events, you might see it requested for a particularly formal daytime occasion.
It’s all about elegance and refinement, but there’s still room to show off your personal style and get creative.
Let’s break it down.
For the Ladies
Black tie for women allows for a bit more creativity than black tie for men. The key is to stay elegant, sophisticated, and to wear colors and textures that you feel best in.
Gown: A floor-length evening gown is the traditional choice. It certainly doesn’t have to be black, though! Feel free to experiment with rich, bold colors. Jewel tones like Emerald and Burgundy are great options if you want a bit of color but don’t know where to start.
Cocktail: Depending on the event’s tone, a high-quality cocktail dress (hemmed just below the knee) can be acceptable. Aim for one with a formal, elegant design to offset the shorter hem.
Shoes: Classic high heels are the go-to, though embellished flats are also fine if they complement the outfit and would make you more comfortable.
Jewelry: This is your chance to bring out the statement pieces! A bold necklace, sparkling earrings, and a chic clutch will enhance your look without overpowering it.
Hair & Makeup: Go for a polished look, whether you choose an elegant updo or old Hollywood waves. Make sure your makeup complements the rest of your outfit — think classic, with maybe a pop of color on the lips or a subtle smoky eye.
For the Gentlemen
The classic black tie ensemble is straightforward, but it’s the little details that make all the difference.
The Tuxedo: A well-tailored black, midnight blue, or ivory tuxedo is the foundation. The jacket typically has satin or grosgrain lapels, adding that extra touch of heightened sophistication.
Shirt: A white, pleated or plain-front dress shirt with a turn-down collar is standard. Make sure the shirt is crisp and well-ironed for a polished look.
Bow Tie: True to the name, a black bow tie is essential.
Footwear: Keep it classic with black patent leather shoes, highly polished oxfords, or a clean pair of velvet slip-ons.
Extras: Cufflinks, a black cummerbund in place of a belt, and a pocket square are all optional but add flair and formality.
Final Tips:
Fit is everything: Whether you're wearing a tux or a gown, the fit of your clothing is crucial. A well-tailored outfit will always make you look your best, even if the garments are simple.
Keep it timeless: While trends come and go, black tie is about timeless elegance. Aim for classic pieces that will never go out of style, and don’t be afraid to re-wear.
Confidence is key: The most important accessory to any black tie look is confidence. Stand tall, smile, and enjoy your evening!
Black tie events may be formal, but they’re also a wonderful opportunity to dress up to the nines and celebrate in style.
If you have a formal event coming up and aren’t sure what to wear, consider hiring a stylist to make sure you look glamorous, appropriate, and confident.
xx the Styled by Collective